But lately we have not been doing this at all and its been the past 3 weeks his been treating me rather cold and unaffectionate.Sure i can understand his going through health problems where currently his suffering from neck pains ( cant move right or left ) / tonsillitis / swollen hands ( unable to give himself a wank). Seriously JT and me have been arguing alot and sometimes it just spoils the mood of wanting to be with him. I understand he is suffering pain from his hemophilia condition. *Yes , JT is a severe Hemophiliac with Hepatitis C, with prone to arthritis and spontaneous internal bleeding.* At times i am just fed up about his condition and envy those who are in a normal relationship.
You may i say I am inmature and selfish but hey I am human & ONLY if you were in my shoe...
( Disadvantages of having a Hemophilia Boyfriend)
Anyways thats a slight intro to compliment the topic. It started out like this last night........
Everything was alright when i mention this to him :-
Me: Hun , i took a bath with MT when you were at silverstone.
JT : U took a bath with her? * STRANGE EXPRESSION SHOWN* Dont do it again! She is nearly 7 and capable to bathe herself . She needs to be aware of her body and cant be naked to others. I dont like it.
Me : *SHOCK and felt Hurt like i was some kind of pedifile* i kept quiet and mention *oh sorry* but my heart felt really hurt cause i thought i could just save time and jump into the bath together & get cleaned up ASAP. i felt as if i have interfere his father and daughter routine ( he normally takes bathes with MT only) maybe i did and i read somewhere that NEVER INTERFERE THE FATHER AND DAUGHTER moment but i wonder does it apply to what he normally does with MT?
JT: * went on doing his thing on the net & wrapping up ebay items*
Me : Are you annoyed at what I did?
JT: No , just dont do it again!
Me : i Kept really queit and guilty & sad.
JT: Dont get upset about it darling.
Me : i still kept queit and guilty. * too late ! im hurt & sad. And went straight to googling my boyfriend does not like me taking baths with his daughter*
Im just curious why did he react that way?
While i am still trying to conclude this post , what a coincidence , he emailed me :- Subject: boo Date: Tue, 29 Jul 2008 11:27:30 +0100 From: j.t@a*****.com To: dc*****@hotmail.com
Don't worry about the bath thing darling, it's really not a big issue.
While i am still trying to conclude this post , what a coincidence , he emailed me :- Subject: boo Date: Tue, 29 Jul 2008 11:27:30 +0100 From: j.t@a*****.com To: dc*****@hotmail.com
you're quiet...
popping out soon to post parcels.
How about Memory Capture for a name... !? :)
JTxx
-----Original Message----- From: DC Sent: 29 July 2008 12:14 To: JT Subject: RE: boo
yeah bit quiet as im still digesting about the bath with MT. [ makes me want to avoid bathing MT now as u mention she is nearly 7 and needs to be aware of her own body and i guess i interfere your *father and daughter* routine with MT. Im sorry about it ] anyways ebay has taken out my Louis Vuitton teddy bear list out as some jerk emailed me how come i offered next day delivery ( 9.00 am ) and everyone is using next day delivery ( 1 pm) Im annoyed at him cause if he had read closely i put both option up and blady ebay remove my listing after he ( buyer) emailed me as they think i am charging too much.and i have to pay listing fee again if i want to list that brooch again. Memory Capture is a good , guess u like the word capture. keep that on the list and brain storm more. X From: | jt@a****com |
Sent: | 29 July 2008 11:23:47 |
To: | dC@hotmail.com |
Don't worry about the bath thing darling, it's really not a big issue.
JT xx
Dy x
9:26:00 am |
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Disadvantages of dating a Hemophiliac,
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