Sometimes in my mind , maybe thats why JT does not want to get married with me as why should he when he has a girlfriend who doesn't complained, does everything for him and treats his daughter well and gets along with his ex ??
It was nice that MT did offered to give me some flowers from church and i was really touch by her consideration . Bless her!! I told her to get some for her mum and nan ( her mum's mum).
I was quite furious that JT didnt even have the slightest gesture or thought to get me something for Mother's Day. I know im expecting to much , eventhough I am not a mum but hey who does all the tidying , cooking , cleaning , ironing and sacrifice my own couple time. Call it selfish , i do not care. But at least some small gesture you know. I am human and i would love to be appreciated at times. So would i want to deal with this treatment say if i was to marry him in future? I am not sure at the moment.
Oh speaking of that , his mum is so weird.. Lately im getting bad vibes from her. Everytime i compliment her she ignores it and doesn't really like to hear it from me. OK , and then she gives funny reaction when MT wants to give me flowers to address me for Step Mother's Day. Well hello , doesnt mean i did not give birth to MT and just dated your son in a couple of years you dont have to give that sneer attitude to me.
I do make myself useful by doing all the housework and welfare. Gosh...makes me furious.. now i see why getting along with in-laws / in my case about to be in laws is NIGHTMARE. A further post shall be written more into this topic.
Anyways , i just want to address to all those girls who are dating / married a guy with kids , Happy Step Mother's Day or Happy Tolerating Girlfriend's Day. I know how you lot feel not being appreciated. Definitely need to address this issue to Hallmark! Unless this isn't a big issue .
Lots of Love,
10:12:00 am |
Category:
Getting along with the In-laws,
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Step Coupling,
Step Families,
Understanding Single Parents
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