I would choose these costumes! Pretty sassy and not tacky at all!!!
Dy xx
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I would choose these costumes! Pretty sassy and not tacky at all!!!
Dy xx
1. I'm half malaysian and singaporean. My mom is a Nonya / Strait Chinese descent.
2. I still look Chinese.
3. I was raised up in a step family environment as my dad remarried and my grandpa had
three wives.
4. I am now dating a single dad my age- didn't expect that!
5. I don't absorb the sun very well today.
6. My skin is burnt. So much for Asian ability to absorb the sun.
7. I just dyed my hair using Goldwell Topchic in 7A
8. My hair is looking much toned down , less orangey and brassy.
9. I just had a romantic meal with my bf in the garden while watching the sunset. Bliss
10. I had a water fight with my bf and his daughter , bloody freezing but cooling to the
skin.
11. I have cycled 55km around Isle of Wight, UK
12. I did bucking bronco today at MT's school event Wild wild west.
13. I find it weird that MT's half sister (AH) ask me to hold her hand and walk her to the
car.
14. I think MH or SH didnt like me being near / touching AH's but it isn't my fault when kids at that young age want to be near you?
15. I am happy that my bf will be heading to Portugal for 6 months as he has been
assigned to lead a project out there!
16. I am a sad that I won't see him often starting next month as my family is coming
over to UK.
17. I'm saving myself for another hollywood wax routine.
18. I am not sure if I am ready to be in a step family relationship eventhough the bf is a lovely guy!
19. I am broke and need a job badly yet i am not doing anything about it.
20. I tend to look sleepy as have a monolid on my right eye. How annoying
21. I have taken another approach on my website and have change it from sparklewhip to soseriousdy.
22. I tried to go church today but it was located at a different place for some reason .
23. I have taken up hula hooping classes since march and I can finally do booty and limbo trick.
24. I recently became quite a taboo person
25. I am into Feng Shui and believe in good and bad energy
26. I am big softy to white furry animals especially Dogs
27. My girl crush atm is Jessica Michibita
28. My favourite shorts is at Malaysia.
29. I did ballet up to Grade 8 and didnt pursue more later on. I hated it!
30. I did Tap & Modern dancing till Grade 6 and love it!
31. I am now starting to enjoy my relationship with my bf as we were arguing alot
before.
32. I didn't know I will be following my dad's footstep to becoming a part-time
photographer
33. I need to sort out my holiday agenda with my family
34. I am waiting for the bf to come to bed. Hurry dude!
35. I tend to smile at people who i vaguely know as I think its a nice feeling after doing it.
36. I can't believe i actually confess to my bf that I find geeky / nerdy guys attractive!!!
37 .I trying to figure how to increase the traffic in my blog as cleary something is going
on right here!
38 .I am slowly showing interest in the value of diamonds.
39. I am more of a pearl person than diamonds.
40. I hate not being myself and have to put up with being polite
41. I am a strong believer in god and feels guilty if i miss a session of church.
42. I have live in UK for 10 years and a bit and about to make preparations for PR.
43. I finish my degree in Business Administration and did a placement year.
44. I am waiting for results which is coming out next month June.
45. I can't sleep without my bolster and have bought two since I came to UK
46. I love Sanctuary Spa products. Their Mande Lular is lush!
47. My bf can cook a mean malaysian curry
48. I did a half marathon , 10K run , two bike rides in 34 & 47 mile bike ride and manage to raise over
£1000 pound for charity
49. I get pleasure from pain and find it exciting!
50. Finally , can't imagine how i manage to list 50 things.
2. I still look Chinese.
3. I was raised up in a step family environment as my dad remarried and my grandpa had
three wives.
4. I am now dating a single dad my age- didn't expect that!
5. I don't absorb the sun very well today.
6. My skin is burnt. So much for Asian ability to absorb the sun.
7. I just dyed my hair using Goldwell Topchic in 7A
8. My hair is looking much toned down , less orangey and brassy.
9. I just had a romantic meal with my bf in the garden while watching the sunset. Bliss
10. I had a water fight with my bf and his daughter , bloody freezing but cooling to the
skin.
11. I have cycled 55km around Isle of Wight, UK
12. I did bucking bronco today at MT's school event Wild wild west.
13. I find it weird that MT's half sister (AH) ask me to hold her hand and walk her to the
car.
14. I think MH or SH didnt like me being near / touching AH's but it isn't my fault when kids at that young age want to be near you?
15. I am happy that my bf will be heading to Portugal for 6 months as he has been
assigned to lead a project out there!
16. I am a sad that I won't see him often starting next month as my family is coming
over to UK.
17. I'm saving myself for another hollywood wax routine.
18. I am not sure if I am ready to be in a step family relationship eventhough the bf is a lovely guy!
19. I am broke and need a job badly yet i am not doing anything about it.
20. I tend to look sleepy as have a monolid on my right eye. How annoying
21. I have taken another approach on my website and have change it from sparklewhip to soseriousdy.
22. I tried to go church today but it was located at a different place for some reason .
23. I have taken up hula hooping classes since march and I can finally do booty and limbo trick.
24. I recently became quite a taboo person
25. I am into Feng Shui and believe in good and bad energy
26. I am big softy to white furry animals especially Dogs
27. My girl crush atm is Jessica Michibita
28. My favourite shorts is at Malaysia.
29. I did ballet up to Grade 8 and didnt pursue more later on. I hated it!
30. I did Tap & Modern dancing till Grade 6 and love it!
31. I am now starting to enjoy my relationship with my bf as we were arguing alot
before.
32. I didn't know I will be following my dad's footstep to becoming a part-time
photographer
33. I need to sort out my holiday agenda with my family
34. I am waiting for the bf to come to bed. Hurry dude!
35. I tend to smile at people who i vaguely know as I think its a nice feeling after doing it.
36. I can't believe i actually confess to my bf that I find geeky / nerdy guys attractive!!!
37 .I trying to figure how to increase the traffic in my blog as cleary something is going
on right here!
38 .I am slowly showing interest in the value of diamonds.
39. I am more of a pearl person than diamonds.
40. I hate not being myself and have to put up with being polite
41. I am a strong believer in god and feels guilty if i miss a session of church.
42. I have live in UK for 10 years and a bit and about to make preparations for PR.
43. I finish my degree in Business Administration and did a placement year.
44. I am waiting for results which is coming out next month June.
45. I can't sleep without my bolster and have bought two since I came to UK
46. I love Sanctuary Spa products. Their Mande Lular is lush!
47. My bf can cook a mean malaysian curry
48. I did a half marathon , 10K run , two bike rides in 34 & 47 mile bike ride and manage to raise over
£1000 pound for charity
49. I get pleasure from pain and find it exciting!
50. Finally , can't imagine how i manage to list 50 things.
Tag!!! Your it!
Lotsa of Love,
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Ever since I stumbled on StyleSuzi youtube videos last year , i had been experimenting my hair colour to achieve the ash brown like hers. I see alot of people complementing her hair colour and asking her advice how to do so. For me i just go for it. Never try, never know!!!
So, I decide to write a review on StyleSuzi (formerly known as suzit86) DIY Hair Dye Demo
Like all Asians, I got bored with my black hair and wanted a change. Hence decided to try Suzi's recommendation of DIY rather than paying £200 ish for my hair to be coloured at the Japanese salon which i have been doing for all this while.
In the earlier features of StyleSuzi's blog , She recommended using Goldwell Topchic in 9NA Very light natural ash blonde permanent hair colour range and a small bottle of hair bleach 40 % vol by Tekniquebase. All these products can be bought at your local Sally's.
Sorry had to take this picture from Suzi's blog as i have deleted the picture I've taken but honestly i did buy the exact product she recommended.
This is what I bought for the first time experimenting the hair colour.
Right the next hairdye experiment was back to the professional range from Goldwell .Suzi's recommendation was again from the Goldwell Topchic Range , BUT in 10P - Pastel Pearl Blonde
So, I decide to write a review on StyleSuzi (formerly known as suzit86) DIY Hair Dye Demo
Like all Asians, I got bored with my black hair and wanted a change. Hence decided to try Suzi's recommendation of DIY rather than paying £200 ish for my hair to be coloured at the Japanese salon which i have been doing for all this while.
In the earlier features of StyleSuzi's blog , She recommended using Goldwell Topchic in 9NA Very light natural ash blonde permanent hair colour range and a small bottle of hair bleach 40 % vol by Tekniquebase. All these products can be bought at your local Sally's.
Sorry had to take this picture from Suzi's blog as i have deleted the picture I've taken but honestly i did buy the exact product she recommended.
This is what I bought for the first time experimenting the hair colour.
Image taken @StyleSuzi
Results From Using : 40% vol bleach + Goldwell Topchic 9NA
Trying to get use to the colour. Quite happy overall as it was the first time i bleach my hair myself!
After waiting patiently for approximately 6 weeks before re-dyeing the hair again , I wanted to try the other recommendation that Suzi recommended, which is the Loreal Excellence Creme 8.1 Ash Blonde . This is for those who can't get their hands on Goldwell and would like to try the drugstore alternative instead. These hairdye boxes can be purchase either at Boots or Superdrug.
Results From Using : Loreal Excellence Creme 8.1
I thought this colour hairdye kinda tone the colour down an appear more red after dyeing it, but then after few washes the colours eventually turn quite ash. Less red in my opinion. Which is shown is this picture below. ( As you can see i got horrible roots coming out waiting to try the next hair dye )
Borrowing the picture from StyleSuzi as I have deleted mine. It's the exact product use anyway but this time with 30% vol of bleach. Apparently it won't be as damaging as the 40% vol.
Image @ StyleSuzi
Results From Using : 30% vol bleach + Goldwell Topchic 10P
Still not the same colour achieve by StyleSuzi , in fact its a bit more ginger I reckon?
Then i went home to Malaysia for my holidays and got my hair coloured and bleach in a proper hair salon. But still i didn't like the colour as not only the bleach use was burning my scalp , the colour turn out to be quite ORANGE!! But again with a couple of washes it tone it down slightly but still it was so orange / brassy after going to the salon. I didn't ask what type of hair dye they did but trusted them anyway which I regretfully won't be going back there again. Anyways here are the pictures from the professionals salon.
It was not bad after a few washes but it was toning down and at the then very orange?
So then , after returning to England and with the hair root showing again as weeks go by , I then decide to give another go on achieving that ash brown colour without the orange / brassiness effect. This time i took the plunge to study the colour chart of the hair dye and ended wanting to go with the same Goldwell Topchic range but in 8NP - Light Blonde Natural Pearl and 30% vol since my hair has been bleached many times.
all from Sallys.
So before experimenting this hair colour, show you my badly overdue grown roots
BEFORE HAIRDYE
Results From Using : 30% vol bleach + Goldwell Topchic 8NP
AFTER
I definitely prefer this tone as its more cooler . I would suggest taking time to experiment and study the hair colour chart well before expecting the colour like StyleSuzi. Sometimes it depends on the type of hair you have. For me i think my hair had loads of red in it and therefore didn't turn out as ashy as i thought by using 9NA. Again experiment it from time to time and you may eventually achieve it. Good Luck on the hair dye people.
Rock and Roll Baby!!!
Lots of Love ,
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Nothing beats a good homemade pizza . Yes and i mean everything from scratch including the base. Serioulsy, it costs less then a tenner to make a nice decent home made pizza.
JT and I enjoy cooking together and one of the most frequent dish we make is the Jamie Oliver pizza , top with parma ham , basil and fresh tomatoes. Mmmm so refreshing!!
I mean yeah Domino's makes an awesome pizza but they are certainly very fattening. Homemade pizza get more satiesfaction and is the way to go!
JT and I enjoy cooking together and one of the most frequent dish we make is the Jamie Oliver pizza , top with parma ham , basil and fresh tomatoes. Mmmm so refreshing!!
I mean yeah Domino's makes an awesome pizza but they are certainly very fattening. Homemade pizza get more satiesfaction and is the way to go!
Lots of Love,
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This issue has been bugging me ever since I moved in with JT. Sure this isn't my house and I don't owned it but will be putting some contribution to it once I get my degree sorted and the usual job hunting procedure.
Anyways last nite at dinner , I took the courage to ask him : -
Me : Sweetie , You are going to be angry when i ask you this.
JT : OK, Tell me. What's bugging you ?
Me : Ok you know that we have been going out for a while ( 2 years and 8 months) I was wondering if it is ok to change some pictures in the living room.
JT : Oh good idea, which one?
Me: Well its kinda awkward to have a huge picture of SH ( JT's ex , MT mom) MT and you in the living room wall.So I was wondering if you can put it in MT's room instead. I don't mean to say that picture isnt nice , but just that its weird to have it on your living room wall as the centre piece when I am dating you.
and his reply......
JT: Yeah , why not. If it makes you happy. Can put it in MT's room. I just put it there as it was my 21st birthday gift from SH and its got MT in it. Have to find a replacement though. A picture of you, MT and me?
Me : SPEECHLESS....ok ( that was'nt so hard after all )
I stumble in a couple of website about this matter and the best i found is from singlemommyhood.com . Have a read through of her post. Her situation isn't that similar to mine as she on the other hand is her daugther wants to display her picture of her father ( her ex husband) but told her 13-year old daughter that it would be better to display in her room only.
FullCustodyDad on the other gave his opinion on it saying :-
'Pictures of the Ex are important to kids and most certainly should be in the kids’ rooms. My daughter has pictures of her mom and every other year I try to take another one of her and my Ex to add to her room.'
After interviewing several social workers who are trying to determine contested custody disputes say…
1) No pictures of the Ex is a tip or concern that the parent may harbor alienation or resentment.
2) Pictures of the Ex in the kids room is ideal and shows balance.
3) Pictures of the Ex in the living room or all over the house is a tip that the parent is trying too hard to impress them or is not dealing with the divorce.
Hope this helps other to answer questions. Let me know what you guys think?
Lots of love,
He didnt even give me a chance to explain why im feeling this way, it would be better if he could say oh i am going out for a meal with my ex alone to discuss things NOT say that and being very quiet about the outing. Making me think he has having affair.
The thing about the fall down on relationships is less communication. Can't believe i even mention you can bloody hell go out with other girls or prostitute i don't care , just let me know some information what will you be doing with them. Why so secretive and quiet about it!!
Pissed me off when he said that. So I get it, I need to let you emphasize the relationship with you ex for the sake of MT. But does it have to be the extend of having a meal out alone just the two? Hmmmmmm.
I told him i need to be prioritise too. It's not all about your daugther and your ex. If its so important maybe you should go marry your ex! I just don't understand it sometimes. I get fed up, sure i trust JT but the way he put it sounds as i am not important. I wonder how the ex's husband tolerates this relationship. I guess he has a child with the ex so he puts all his devotion on to the baby.
Me , i don't have anything except I can focus more on my career , my friends and see how much longer I can put up with this relationship. I thought it would be ok at first. But things just been rough and self esteem is down so maybe a hint of jealously may initiate the bust up. I dunno.
Anyways JT came and hug me and apologies that he will be more informative about the outing next time. Will see if he does. I do not wish to have to remind him about it. I deserve better treatment don't I? hehhe
Lots of Love,
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I love the results though. Baby smooth, just like a little girl again!!! Bliss.
Now for those who dont know the stages of pubic waxing. They consist of :-
- Basic bikini waxing
- Brazillian
- Playboy
- Hollywood
- Las Vegas
It was weird at first when you are ask to just wear your underwear and try to relax. The beautician will tell you that she will work from outwards then inwards, see how much pain can you bear and she will stop from there. My experience it hurts more on the outside of the pantyline compare to the bottom bit near your privates. It took almost 1 hr to get all my hair off!!! Boy wasn't i glad the pain and agony was over. I mean why would people stop at Playboy? Must as well go full on right?
Oh as well , you've got to have an open mind when the beautician looks into your privates. If your uncomfortable with this, then i suggest dont do it if you are so shy to bare it out!!! She freaking has seen so many till she is so use to it!! So be brave and bite the bullet!.
Best advice i can give for those who are getting any bikini wax is to get comfortable with yourself intimately. Think sexy lingerie and suspenders!!!
Oh another tip, make sure your beautician uses talcon powder before waxing, it prevents stripping off all your skin cells, and also dont have your waxing done during or just after your period. Second week of your period should be ideal. Take any pain killers 1/2 hr before treatments. After waxing, no swimming / baths / sunbead / sex for 24hrs , Wash it with warm water with an exfloliate so that the hair can come out properly. Don't want any ingrown hair. If you want to maintain this you have to wait around 3-6 weeks. It depends on individual , how fast your hair grows, but basically let it grow for approx 1 cm.
Anyways, im loving my baby smooth intimate part. Definitely Hollywood waxing is the way to go. Good Luck for those who are going!! Its all worth it!!!!
Lots of love,
